Liz Zhou
Holistic Trauma Therapist, Coach, Speaker
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I help highly sensitive, neurodivergent adults & couples heal their nervous systems & connect with their authentic selves.
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ADHD Nervous System Regulation: Why We Need More than “Tips, Tricks, & Hacks”
ADHDers need more than planners, apps, & executive functioning “hacks” in order to move sustainably through this world. Though all these tools can absolutely be helpful, they do not address the root causes of nervous system dysregulation & ADHD burnout. Join me & Deema Al-Omar in an enlightening conversation that just might change the way you understand (& take care of) your ADHD brain.
How to Build a Nervous System Care Plan: The 8 Senses
If you’re a sensitive or neurodivergent person who struggles to regulate your nervous system, often experiencing burnout, meltdowns, & sensory overload… this blog post is for you. I’ll share practical info on how to care for your nervous system, focusing on the 5 senses (sight, sound, smell, touch, & taste) and beyond (proprioception & intuition).
Sensory Care for the Nervous System
Having options for self-care is so important — not just for our own nervous system health, but also for the health of our communities. Every nervous system that heals, rests, and is cared for, creates ripple effects for the collective healing of all.
3 Loving Reminders for When the World is Overwhelming
When the world feels like it’s on fire, it’s natural to become dysregulated. Here are 3 reminders to help you tend to your nervous system and navigate the state of the world with agency & awareness – without bypassing painful emotions or pretending that everything is okay (when it’s not).
Let’s Talk Self-Care: Brain Dumps, Inner Child, & Nature
We’ve all heard how important self-care is — but actually building a self-care plan that works for your brain is a whole other story. If the typical advice, like “take a bubble bath!” or “have you tried meditating?”, simply doesn’t work for you: let’s explore options that feel more accessible & authentic to you.
You’re Not Broken: An Affirming, Ancestral View of Neurodiversity
Neurodivergence, like autism & ADHD, is often stigmatized in Western mental health. They’re seen as pathologies in need of a “cure.” But what if we viewed neurodiversity through a curious & affirming lens, acknowledging both the challenges AND gifts?
You’re Not Lazy: Your Nervous System Needs Rest
Endless productivity is not realistic, yet many of us carry the burden of feeling “lazy,” like we’re not doing enough. This blog post explores why rest is a need, not a reward; how capitalism & culture impact our relationship to work; and what it means to move at the speed of your nervous system — not at the speed of capitalism.
To Mask or Unmask: Your Nervous System, Your Needs
When does it feel safe to be you? If you’ve heard the advice “just be yourself” and felt frustrated by how generic it was, I want to share a more nuanced framework that acknowledges personal identities & lived experiences: masking vs. unmasking.
Nervous System Regulation: Why Self-Care & Collective Care Matter
Dysregulation isn’t a bad thing — it’s just information. In this blog post, I explain what the nervous system is, what nervous system regulation means, and why the goal isn’t to be 100% regulated all the time, but rather to have a FLEXIBLE nervous system.
Navigating Neurodivergence in a Complex World: Joy, Grief, Care, Hope
Being a human in this world, in these times, is to hold grief in one hand & joy in the other. How do we acknowledge suffering, without losing ourselves in it?
Nervous System Tips for Neurodivergent Folks in Burnout & Meltdown Mode
As neurodivergent (autistic, ADHD, highly sensitive) people, we face an uphill battle when it comes to regulating our nervous systems: the stressors of everyday life, the weight of collective traumas, and a world that wasn’t built for our wiring.
Reflections on Intergenerational Wisdom & Nervous System Healing
Our bodies hold subconscious & intergenerational information. Your ancestors play a role in the story of your nervous system.